tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1933486986226677742024-02-07T21:06:38.126+01:00Chronicles of an American in CroatiaThe Good, The Bad & The UglyAn American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-80166474554932923022010-03-15T13:41:00.003+01:002010-03-15T13:49:57.432+01:00Today We Ate Crab...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdITj2N3fLe9KfZOMttRBjT4KMuQ3lXnXLnzx8DMnTgmekrhtiUC3fNrhXQeGD65rpSEBDwXUN7vbyzRhh8-z596J_oql9b-hsK41IAvDc5_KewZ3smPU-RjVyp5qYJoRpbELZLVMk-UY/s1600-h/Milan+with+Crab+5.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5448841385633280898" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 300px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdITj2N3fLe9KfZOMttRBjT4KMuQ3lXnXLnzx8DMnTgmekrhtiUC3fNrhXQeGD65rpSEBDwXUN7vbyzRhh8-z596J_oql9b-hsK41IAvDc5_KewZ3smPU-RjVyp5qYJoRpbELZLVMk-UY/s400/Milan+with+Crab+5.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>Great day at the market...</div>An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-54109746527356223692010-02-11T07:10:00.004+01:002010-02-11T07:45:45.639+01:00The Wrong CakeBlanka's baptism is this weekend.<br /><br />So, I walked down to the bakery to order the cake and bread for the event. It's our favorite bakery and we know that staff well. So, I explain to them what we need in terms of bread and then turn to the issue of the cake. The cake expert is called in and she pulls out a book to show me page after page of cake pictures, all geared toward baptism. They even had one of them on display. And while it was sort of cute, I found them to be rather tacky. ...Heaps of frosting, molded into the shape of bibles...or baby booties...etc...<br /><br />So, I point to the elegant chocolate layer cake with chocolate shavings on top sitting in the glass case and ask,<br /><br />-why can't I have a cake like this?<br /><br />-That's a birthday cake.<br /><br />I move in for a closer inspection. It didn't say Happy Birthday on it or anything like that. So, I replied:<br /><br />-I think it looks good.<br /><br />-Yes, but for baptisms in our country, people take these cakes.<br /><br />She proceeds to point to the pages in the book geared for baptism. So, I shore up my strength for the fight and I say,<br /><br />-Well, I think these cakes are more elegant.<br /><br />-I don't think you understand me. That's a birthday cake.<br /><br />...and so on...<br /><br />Ladies and Gentleman, I left the bakery with an order for three ˝birthday˝ cakes for Blanka's baptism. Later, I told my husband that it was fortunate that I handled the transaction. As a foreigner, they'll chalk it up to my being an idiot and not knowing how things are done ˝kod nas.˝ Moreover, they'll sympathize with my poor husband who has to be subject to my crazy American ideas.<br /><br />The funny part of this is that she acted like I was assaulting some deeply held principle when in fact I know that 20 years ago no one would have been ordering <em>anything</em> from a bakery -not for a baptism or anything else. Some old baba would have made the cake. And guess what...it would have looked just like one of my ˝birthday˝ cakes.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-63314435417209351762010-01-27T07:23:00.002+01:002010-01-27T07:32:52.155+01:00Tuberculosis Shot, I Hate YouIt's customary in Croatia to vaccinate newborns against TB. So, my little 3 day old daughter received her shot in the left arm. I was told that a small blister will form at the injection site within about a month's time. That stupid blister arrived a few weeks ago. Now you might be thinking it some cute tiny...nothing. Well, it's not nothing. It's an angry, disgusting, pus-filled monster - a monster that broke two nights ago and sent my ordinarily docile 8 week old into full-on hysteria.<br /><br />If that's not bad enough - as is the case with TB vaccination - she'll be left with a scar on her shoulder that looks like I took a car cigarette lighter to it. <br /><br />Fabulous. <br /><br />TB shot, I hate your guts.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-47432592637396744132010-01-19T15:45:00.006+01:002010-01-19T17:19:43.850+01:00My Experience with Cloth Diapers<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXaKmZ3mhDyNGzdB04N97yyUpJGrsY-SktZ-OV5yatZLFJ97jX4gVei4p_bJBzzmZG82Fb_ZMkbPvjNwilEirDk9XLjFjrX1qlF13wvYZ8aYSICwPuIdMVQbVcpd48EssH0HYWfgq7_Z4/s1600-h/Cloth+Diapers.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428462579907128498" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 300px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 400px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXaKmZ3mhDyNGzdB04N97yyUpJGrsY-SktZ-OV5yatZLFJ97jX4gVei4p_bJBzzmZG82Fb_ZMkbPvjNwilEirDk9XLjFjrX1qlF13wvYZ8aYSICwPuIdMVQbVcpd48EssH0HYWfgq7_Z4/s400/Cloth+Diapers.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>I have a 6 week old baby who, except for the first few days of her life while we were in the hospital, has never worn anything but cloth diapers. I'm not going to give you the environment as the impetus for choosing cloth because I'm sure there are legions out there in internet land who will argue that the water and electricity that I use to wash the diapers offsets the absence of poopy disposibles in the garbage dump. </div><div></div><div>My husband is partial to the diaper rash argument...that the incidence of diaper rash skyrocketed with the rise in use of disposible diapers. Frankly, that too will be written off by mothers who will argue that more frequent changing would abolish much of those incidents. </div><div></div><div>Originally, I think that the decision to cloth diaper was driven by the fact that the concept is entirely aligned with how my husband and I live. Nothing in our life is disposible - everything is solid, heavy...and will last 100 years. I actually liked the idea that all of our children will have the same diapers. There's continuity in that - history. These are OUR family's diapers now and forever. </div><div></div><div>So, now after 6 weeks of hard daily use, what do I think about cloth diapers? Are they worth it?</div><div></div><div>Absolutely. I wouldn't change a thing. She's happy in them. I'm happy with them. I have several cute diaper bags made for me by Kelly at <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/PETUNIAS">Petunia's</a>. The XL ICKY bags hold 1 load of dirty diaper laundry for my front loading washing machine. I have a few regular sized ICKY bags that I take on the road with me, while we're strolling around town and stepping over/rolling through the raw sewage that seems to be spilling out of several manhole covers near our apartment building (ah, yes...cholera anyone?). </div><div></div><div>Exclusively breastfed baby's poo is completely water soluble - meaning, I don't dunk anything or whatever you're thinking. I remove the diaper and throw it immediately into the diaper bag, poo and all. When the bag is full, I overturn the bag in my washing machine and then throw the bag in, too. Voila. I don't touch anything. </div><div></div><div>One cold water rinse and then a hot cycle using special cloth diaper detergent from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CleanRinse">Clean Rinse </a>and the dipes are clean - enough to pass the most rigorous olfactory and visual tests (which is more than I can say for Zadar streets after a rainstorm). For whatever reason, I've always finished them off with a second cold water rinse with about a half cup of vinegar (for softening) and a few drops of lavendar oil (for scent) but it's not required. </div><div></div><div>Now, there are a variety of cloth diaper covers (not all cloth diapers require covers...but mine do). I went entirely wool - no PUL covers. I have a full stash of Aristocrat and Disana covers (pictured on the right). I embellished the covers with the crocheted flowers that you see. And despite being a natural fiber with a bad reputation, even the covers couldn't be easier to care for. In 6 weeks of daily use, I've washed and relanolized the covers once - once! And that, only because I thought I <em>should</em> rather than any particular need (meaning, they weren't leaking and they weren't stinking). </div><div></div><div>So, friends. My foray into cloth diapers has been an unequivocal success so far. </div>An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-90248430693494011472009-11-21T08:13:00.004+01:002009-11-21T08:28:45.608+01:00Zadar, LebanonIt's that time of year again...<br /><br />From mid-November through New Year's, Zadar sounds like bombed-out Beirut. Under the rubric of Anything-to-Appease-the-Kiddies, parents buy an arsenal of firecrackers which are set off day and night by their kids. <br /><br />Walking to school? ...why don't you pass the time setting off firecrackers...<br /><br />After lunch...what else is there to do but light firecrackers...<br /><br />Do you hate the neighbor's dog? Shoot a firecracker at it and laugh like a maniac when the animal goes running...<br /><br />This also marks the time when my husband wears out the speed dial for the Police. <br /><br />Disptacher: Hello?<br />Husband: Yes, I'm just calling to let you know that there are a couple kids in front of my building that have been lighting firecrackers for the past half hour...<br />Dispatcher: And...<br />Husband: Well, it's illegal. And I'm looking right at them...right now...as we speak. <br />Dispatcher: What do expect kids to do? When I was their age, we used live ordinance.<br /><br />(<em>actual call</em>)<br /><br />Ah yes...welcome to the Wild West...<br /><br />So, when little Jimmy blows off his sister's arm or grows up to be a delinquent, the neighbors will all cluck their tongues and say, ˝he was such a good boy...˝ and they will be baffled.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-90200907141657454922009-09-21T13:22:00.008+02:002009-09-21T14:40:28.654+02:00Shopping for the Baby<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDBffaSNx0sHY_left0Ko0nqjQErVyrwsjS3p6ayaSJCHaMR0KZIy_8BIQobxBVp1jb6FZIdO2SV5_IbTor1mwgh3RTOPKVB0jrQZLhyvLiZ7xr3UGe34h1qLmkAH4Yc0nGeQ5uZiepac/s1600-h/BirdsHaveFlowersBibDress.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5383881755499255650" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDBffaSNx0sHY_left0Ko0nqjQErVyrwsjS3p6ayaSJCHaMR0KZIy_8BIQobxBVp1jb6FZIdO2SV5_IbTor1mwgh3RTOPKVB0jrQZLhyvLiZ7xr3UGe34h1qLmkAH4Yc0nGeQ5uZiepac/s200/BirdsHaveFlowersBibDress.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqlfEaIPUEu6ORAULjMweEwNFOMSViG_GdqSmovyVxAHTLOqGSryb3s6_7MtVx52WBOgbej1bmoYtm1dOJGxjnKIvDy53myLy-fBVCvCwtiRmNpGlII9oOBOQS17PEoERV3wm59VpduZ8/s1600-h/Some+of+the+Baby+Clothes.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5383880662635862930" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqlfEaIPUEu6ORAULjMweEwNFOMSViG_GdqSmovyVxAHTLOqGSryb3s6_7MtVx52WBOgbej1bmoYtm1dOJGxjnKIvDy53myLy-fBVCvCwtiRmNpGlII9oOBOQS17PEoERV3wm59VpduZ8/s200/Some+of+the+Baby+Clothes.jpg" border="0" /></a> I've been picking up some baby things via <a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.etsy.com">Etsy</a>. I like the idea of have one-off pieces for the baby...something that nobody else will have...things that are handmade and unique rather than exactly like a million other pieces that roll off the assembly line of some Chinese factory. I'm not knocking mass production, but I'm merely saying that it's a different mentality. To give you a corollary example, my husband and I have all original art in our apartment. And not just that...we personally know each and every artist. We know their stories. We know what they were thinking about when they made each piece of art. Sure, it's cheaper for us to go out and buy pickles....but we make them, instead. But I can tell you the names of every person who made our baby's clothes. I can tell you where they live and how many kids they have... It illustrates a qualitative difference in the way that my husband and I interact with the world. Everything is personal. It's slower. It's more time consuming but for us, it's worth it. </div><div> </div><div>As far as the clothes, my choices have been met with mixed reviews, but husband and I are thrilled with what we've gotten. Natural fabrics. Lots of wool. Lots of re-purposed things (sweaters that are remade into tiny pants or the little coat that's featured in these picture). These pictures are just a few of the items that I've bought so far (I couldn't fit everything into one photo; some things haven't arrived yet). By and large, my shopping experience has been overwhelmingly positive. I've asked for slight changes on some things...I've asked for completely custom-made items. No problem. No problem. No problem. The prices have been roughly similar to those found in store-bought items but the quality is much, much better. </div><br /><div>Sure, some things don't make sense to get from sellers on Etsy. Things like little baby t-shirts and onesies. You can pick up a pack of t-shirts very inexpensively and they're almost disposable (planned obsolesence). But even for those items, I've been making appliques that I'll use as embellishments. For example, I made the little owls picture here and will sew them onto those fairly blah clothes. </div><div> </div><div></div><div>Like I said, this approach is not for everybody, but it wouldn't be the first time that I've gone against the flow. </div>An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-90456550924117298722009-09-16T14:52:00.004+02:002009-09-16T15:15:36.675+02:00The Summer is Over...It's rainy, cloudy...cold. We actually installed air conditioning like 3 weeks ago - yes, at the END of the summer (we were stupidly resistent to air-conditioning - I have no idea why, now - not that we're using it much these days). <br /><br />A friend of ours from Montreal visted earlier this week. Travelling alone. She's never been to Croatia before. Man, it would really suck to be traveling alone while the rain is pouring. But what a great attitude she has! She's a real renaissance woman - travels all over the place. Speaks 5 languages. Knits, sews...makes soap...builds things with wood - and I'm not talking about bird houses - the woman actually makes structures, like gazebos and things!<br /><br />Otherwise, I'm happily gestating. 7 months, now. Waiting with baited breath and praying for a good outcome.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-67419981247846964072009-06-15T10:36:00.003+02:002009-06-15T10:57:40.544+02:00Zadar Road WorkWell, it's been awhile....but not too long (or so I tell myself).<br /><br />What's been happening? Hmmm...<br /><br />Well, they are in the midst of building a road next to my house (where I live AND work). So, in addition to drilling into solid rock from 7am, they have also been sucessfully drilling into my brain. The funny part is that this road is short. It's the perpendicular piece connecting two parallel roads. This road will be built by what seems to be one or two guys. And it all has this sort of keystone cop vibe. One guy gets out of the drilling machine....runs over to the backhoe...scoops up the rock bits and makes a pile....then runs back to the drilling machine. God Bless him. This guy can literally build a road all by himself.<br /><br />We went on the boat yesterday. Just a day trip across the channel to Ugljan. We anchored south of Kali. Ate. Napped. Swam. That's the Croatia that I love. When you're in vacation mode, the place can't be beat - <a href="http://www.product-of-croatia.com/vijest.php?broj=1687">unless it's Sunday or a holiday</a>.<br /><br />Now it's Monday, again. Back to the drilling....An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-17538205427208158922009-06-01T14:25:00.003+02:002009-06-01T14:41:28.407+02:00A Great Strange Day in ZadarIt was a weird day yesterday.<br /><br />First off, that heat wave has definately broken. Now, it's raining...raining...raining and cold. <br /><br />We woke up too late to go our usual mass (we went to an evening mass, instead) so we decided to go into town for a coffee. There, under near constant rainfall, we met a British pair who just arrived in town that morning. We chatted for quite some time and ended up inviting them to have lunch at our place. I thawed a few more pieces of meat, etc...and off we went. It was a great afternoon. They simply couldn't believe that we would just invite people over to our house for lunch - people we have only just met....and without planning. The day was lovely.<br /><br />After mass in the evening, we went to a local hangout for a drink. There we met a family from New Zealand. We were completely charmed. We ended up sitting with them for hours, talking about anything and everything. They had 3 great super well-behaved and polite children, two of whom were born in Thailand while the father did a stint there. They were on a 3 1/2 month ˝vacation˝ -basically, a world tour. Great people.<br /><br />All in all, a great - strange - day.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-86816907644266921262009-05-26T13:53:00.008+02:002009-05-26T14:34:30.721+02:00Zadar is HOT!Sorry there's been such a gap in postings. It's so hot this year, I don't know what to do with myself. We're in the grips of a heat wave that hasn't been seen in 50 years. Four people have died, already...all of them in Zagreb, I believe - which makes sense...same temps but more humid and more smog.<br /><br />We went swimming last Thursday. Despite the official water temperature - 24 degrees (celsius), that day - I believe, in truth, that it was closer to 19/20. Brrr. However, once you stop hyperventilating after entering the water, you become quite accustomed to it...dare I say, it's refreshing? Now the powers that be tell us that the water temperature at the local beaches is 27/28....so what does that make it in actuality? About 22/23 - which is not bad. This is the Med, after all. You never get the bathwater temperatures like you do in Hawaii or the Caribbean, for example. But it's great, nevertheless.<br /><br />As an aside, I posted a predition awhile ago about the tourist season this year. Just based on my own anecdoctal evidence (what kind of tourists were coming and when), it was my contention that the tourists came earlier than usual to 1) save money by coming in ˝shoulder season˝ and 2) because Easter was late...add a little swine flu to that....and you get a nice confluence of factors which will spell disaster for the local tour operators and hoteliers. My theory was that come ˝high season,˝ this place would clear out. It's too expensive for what you get and people will stick closer to home. Well, it looks like I might have been right. Despite reports around Easter of ˝record breaking˝ numbers of tourists...and much poo-pooing of the pundits who predicted a disasterous tourist season due to the financial crisis, now...a month later and kissing the beginning of the official tourist season, the bureau which keeps statistics on tourism reported yesterday that visitors are down 38%. I won't say ˝I told you so...˝An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-31278659708303556202009-05-18T15:47:00.004+02:002009-05-18T16:31:55.749+02:00Zadar Local ElectionsSo, local elections were yesterday, Sunday. As predicted, HDZ swept Zadar. This is a HDZ stronghold. VOX tv, a local station, featured one-on-one interviews with Minister Kalmeta (HDZ) and someone else on the HDZ ticket for last hour or two leading up to the campaign blackout which was supposed to take effect at midnight on Friday. The interview is tantamount, of course, to one giant infomercial for HDZ. Fine, what do I care? My questions is, where were the enraged lawyers for the opposition threatening to sue the station? <br /><br />So, yes, all electioneering was supposed to stop. Forget baby-kissing and photo ops with celebrity supporters, Zadrani like free olive trees from their candidates. Sadly, that too was supposed to end at midnight on Friday. No informercials. No new campaign posters. Of course, this strict prohibition was completely ignored in Zadar but HEY, as it turned out...according to GONG - a national whistle-blowing group - it was completely ignored everywhere in Croatia, and by all parties. Laws, like signed contracts, serve as mere guidelines rather than real directives/prohibitions. But I digress.<br /><br />So, things will continue business-as-usual in Zadar. The wild west...An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-74954807427637861192009-05-14T11:36:00.006+02:002009-05-14T12:44:42.810+02:00Introduction to New FlavorsI get a lot of questions about the food in Croatia. I like to eat and apparently other people do to, so I thought I would start posting what I'm cooking for lunch each day (lunch is the main meal - as is often the case in cultures which historically honored the siesta). A new feature on this blog then is On the Menu for Today (right column, first entry) so readers can check in to see what's cookin'.<br /><br />Talking about ˝Croatian Food˝<br /><br />I don't know what constitutes ˝Croatian Food˝ per se since I do notice some differences between the typical fare in the North - say, around Zagreb or up around the Hungarian border - versus what we have here in Dalmatia. So, I would be leary to talk about such a thing as ˝Croatian food˝...let alone SERBO-Croatian food which you still manage to hear from time to time in the English speaking world (Note: feel free to just forget those two words in conjunction with each other). Up north, the taste profile is more Eastern European. It's a more sour taste profile - sour kraut....things made with splashes of vinegar. It's actually a taste profile that I know well having grown up in a heavily German part of the country. But we live in Dalmatia. Generally speaking, I would say that Dalmatian food fits the average North American's notions of the Mediterranean Diet. Lots of olive oil. Lamb. Procuitto served with hard cheese and bread. Ironically, despite being on the sea, fish is quite a bit more expensive here than in the U.S. but people still go for it...Sardines, anchovies - in an oil and vinegar marinade or marinated in oil and salt, sea bass, octopus, cuddle fish, various kinds of shells (mussels and so on), shrimp and the mother of all fish, Scorpion Fish (škarpina - ugly but tasty). Tripe is actually pretty popular around here, but I personally haven't gone for it.<br /><br />Now, since I'm American (with no Croatian background whatsoever), I bring slightly different tastes to the picture. Whenever we have guests over for dinner, they are often curious what the would've gotten exactly what they would have had they gone to anyone's house. However, for the past year or so, I've been slowly introducing some new taste profiles whenever we've had guests. Take, for example, potato salad. The typical service here would be boiled potates with sliced raw onions, vinegar, oil and lots of salt and pepper. Last summer, I started serving more American-style potato salad...meaning the kind with mayonaise & mustard, chopped hard boiled eggs, pickles, olives, red onions, etc. This stuff was like crack for people. I think I could make a fortune going into the potato salad business here. It's like the potato salad that they know and love, but pumped up. Another surprise for people here was the concept of carrot cake. Cake made from carrots? How weird (!)...but is it? Not when you taste it, my friend.<br /><br />We'll see what this summer holds.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-43158845105157486972009-05-07T14:41:00.007+02:002009-05-07T15:20:09.169+02:00Dear Croatian in America,First off, thanks for your comment on <a href="http://croatianimmigrant.blogspot.com/2009/04/story-of-corruption.html">A Story of Corruption</a>. Your point that corruption happens in the U.S. is well taken and correct. However, I wanted to write a more substantive response to you because what you said is the most common defense that we hear and I think it's worth dealing with in detail.<br /><br />Yes, corruption is a world problem and individual cases do happen in the US. However, the difference that I am highlighting here is a societal one. Corruption in Croatia is a <em>societal</em> ill. So much so that Croatia's own Ministry of Justice saw fit to produce this brilliant <a href="http://www.antikorupcija.hr/Default.aspx?sec=2">Anti-Corruption ad</a>. It is also very likely a function of corruption that this ad aired for all of a few days before it was yanked and banished to the depths of the archive never to be seen again.<br /><br />In addition to classical corruption scenarios where envelopes pass back and forth under tables, I include among the rot, the building of illegal houses and buildings as well as the pay-offs that happen to get building permits (when permits are actually sought). I include among the corrupt those people who hire complete incompetents because he/she is so-and-so's nephew. I'm talking about the workers who spend most of their <a href="http://www.jutarnji.hr/vijesti/clanak/art-2009,2,20,,153080.jl">time at work going for coffee</a> and standing around but draw a full day's wage. I'm talking about the women at the open air market who charge tourists more for their products than they do locals. I'm talking about the thousands of ˝veterans˝ who never enlisted for the war (but are the right age) who scam the system to get the benefits (and there are many benefits). I'm talking about millions of dollars raised by patriotic members of the diaspora for the war effort that were shuttled directly into the pockets and personal accounts of local Croatians which to me personally is one of the most disgusting violations of trust in recent history that I've ever seen.<br /><br />So, you see, I'm NOT talking about individual cases of one back scratching another. I am talking corruption as societal rot. Corruption in Croatia is absolutely pervasive and at all levels of society. The fact that it is a more accepted mode of doing business is true and not only sad but a serious impediment to development. The difference that I am highlighting is that in the US, when corruption is made public, people are actually scandalized, the public is outraged and people are forced to resign (e.g., <a href="http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/chi-blagojevich-impeachment-removal,0,5791846.story">Blagojevich</a>) and often go to jail.<br /><br />Now, there are problems in the US. No doubt. Moral relativism. Violence. etc... But corruption as a <em>societal </em>ill is not one of them.<br /><br />If I could vote in the upcoming elections here, I would vote for <a href="http://www.dorh.hr/default.asp?ru=113">USKOK</a> (the anti-corruption wing of the Federal Prosecutor's office).An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-20947290522105452582009-05-04T17:48:00.004+02:002009-05-04T18:05:44.216+02:00Agro-Tourism Fair in Skradin<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0rvLCGYAfjCawjh0zR1OLjmoPNP4BqrC0mUIsZzcbn-OkM-Z4g7xlQnpdysWXdqmQlTM2Ok_MVDgjcZf8m6OdhJziLepa4q86wigt63eALBwAp4XTVaWCH5n-oiXh7NPCZtYR8PDRZ-M/s1600-h/Spoils+of+Skradin+May+2+2009"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331999350444928482" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0rvLCGYAfjCawjh0zR1OLjmoPNP4BqrC0mUIsZzcbn-OkM-Z4g7xlQnpdysWXdqmQlTM2Ok_MVDgjcZf8m6OdhJziLepa4q86wigt63eALBwAp4XTVaWCH5n-oiXh7NPCZtYR8PDRZ-M/s320/Spoils+of+Skradin+May+2+2009" border="0" /></a>Husband and I went to Skradin on Saturday for the first-ever Agro-Tourism Fair. Overall, it was fairly lame, although there were some good booths. One of our favorites was Uljara Laća which is a new refinery for olive oil in Skradin. Good oil AND they were peddling bread bowls with little fried fishes called girice (I don't know what the translation is). Maybe they won our hearts because we were expecting to chow down at this agro-tourism fair and instead got nothin' but the bread bowl.<br /><br />Neverthess, we ended up with lots of treasure at the end of time at the fair. You get a picture of our dinner room as a bonus. Husband went nuts on the meat and that's a serious wheel of cheese. The other bits are a jar of pear preserves, a cake from Imotski and various wines and liquers.<br /><br />While the actual fair could have been ˝done˝ much better, I am completely charmed by Skradin. They were all pirates back in the day, you know, and consider it a feather in their cap.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-16461626946238345612009-04-20T18:24:00.003+02:002009-04-20T18:32:44.335+02:00Fishing on the BridgeLast night, we were walking across the bridge and saw a guy fishing. Now, we see this guy fishing off the bridge every night, but honestly, only last night did we actually witness a strike. So, he's fashioned a ˝spear˝ from what looks like a hoe with points instead of a flat edge. He ties the other end to the bridge and <span style="font-size:180%;">HURLS</span> it at amazing speed into the water....and I mean, amazing speed. Now, the bridge is 10 feet above the water....and it's nighttime. How does he see the fish? <br /><br />Nevertheless, we saw him fling the hoe and pull out a rather sizable fish.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-47103947942552212642009-04-16T15:19:00.004+02:002009-04-16T15:39:03.498+02:00Tourists Have Already Descended on ZadarHoly cow, has the tourist season started...or WHAT! There are what seem to be a million foreigners all over the place. What's remarkable, however, are not simply the numbers of early tourists but also their composition. Easter to May are considered the shoulders of ˝the season,˝ meaning, the prices still haven't hiked to their summer peak. Usually, we get the Polish, Czech...Hungarian tourists during these months. Then come the Germans, Austrians, Australians, Americans/Canadians & French, followed by the Italians in August. By the end of the season - again, the shoulder - you start to see Czech, Polish & Hungarian tourists again. This year, however, is COMPLETELY different. We are already overrun with Germans and Austrians...some Australians/Brits & French. <br /><br />Of course, the Croatian media is eating this up. ˝See, there's no crisis in Croatia....˝ in I-told-you-so fashion. <br /><br />Au contraire. <br /><br />My theory is this: I think that we are going to continue with this overwhelming blitz of early tourism <em>before</em> the prices spike to high heaven and then tourism is going to crash and burn. Look. It's no secret that it's cheaper to go on vacation to a warm destination in the off-season....even if it's only <em>slightly</em> off-season. It's an 8 hour drive from Munich to Zadar...the weather's great here. Some people are already swimming (I can guarentee that it's the tourists who are swimming this early because no local would so much as dip a toe in the sea, right now). But the snow birds are thinking...Why not head down in April or May, avoid the crowds, the exorbitant prices and we STILL get a taste of the sea for our vacation.<br /><br />We'll see.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-59721738077993165872009-04-14T15:37:00.005+02:002010-04-06T08:33:37.482+02:00A Story of CorruptionWe got a call from a friend of Husband's the other day. They've known each other for twenty or so years. He's the CEO of a very large company in Croatia and was in town (our town) for some business. The transaction was that his large company was buying up a small local company so he was in town to finish the deal. However, there was a final twist that he couldn't have anticipated, he told us. At the end of the day, this small-ish local business owner made a sort-of ˝thank you˝ speech - lauding this friend of ours for being very fair to his company in their dealings together. At the end of the speech, he reached out and handed our friend an envelope. Inside the envelope was 15,000 euros. This local business owner explained that it was a thank you from him and that when the deal is final at the end of the week...he'll give him another 10,000 euros. (I'm sure the 25,000 euro ˝thank you˝ would demand repayment sometime in the future - by, who knows what - maybe by hiring his nephew to be the Plant Director or something of that ilk).<br /><br />Our friend was pretty disgusted with the whole thing. And while, he heads one of the largest companies in Croatia, he's got a North American work ethic and so these business-as-usual practices here seem to shock him time and time again. Of course, he refused the money and told us that he wondered how many of his employees - below him - had taken their envelopes through the months of putting this deal together. I'm sure there were plenty. I wish I could say that we were shocked, but that would be a lie.<br /><br />Even in my short time in Croatia, I've seen - just in our daily life - corruption. From the local accountants who will charge us 4 or 5 times the going rate for their services under the rubric that ˝these people obviously have more money, so they should pay more for those services.˝ That mentality as common as rock in these parts. One of the most stark examples of corrupt behavior happened right after we moved to Croatia and bought a boat. When we went to pay our taxes on that boat, we were told by this tax person, ˝oh no, it's quite impossible for us (the tax authority) to determine what you owe...but here (as a scrap of paper was slide across the counter), call him...he'll come out to the boat and appraise it.˝ Of course, we PAY for that appraisal - and this tax person gets some of that money. Well, obviously this didn't pass the sniff test so made a call to the previous owner of the boat - who called the tax office in his town. And this guy cheerfully faxed over the specs and taxes owed on our boat to our local tax person.<br /><br />Oftentimes, we hear from people here ˝well, there's corruption everywhere...˝ And yes, there is corruption everywhere. But it's not standard practice - everywhere. And even in egregious cases in the U.S., like Enron for example...people go to jail. And perhaps, most importantly, IT IS ACTUALLY A SCANDAL in the public forum. Meaning, members of the general public don't shrug their shoulders and say...ha, corruption is everywhere.<br /><br />Instead of wanting a piece of rock, like the old Allstate ads, my husband always says ˝everyone wants a piece of the rot...˝<br /><br />Sad but true.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-39198167894943468282009-04-10T07:35:00.006+02:002009-04-10T07:47:22.209+02:00A Coup at the Zadar MarketI'm a fan of <span style="color:#ff9900;">carrots</span>. I pretty much cook with them everyday. I make cakes from them. I eat them raw. So, yesterday, we were at the market and our vegetable lady began to tell us that she's got a bag full of <span style="color:#ff9900;">carrots</span> that she can't sell - she can't sell them because they're funny looking ...they're twisted or bent - and would I like to take them. How can I say no? So, I walked away with my weight in <span style="color:#ff9900;">carrots</span>. Oh bliss!<br /><br />So, I'm amending the menu. Roasted potatoes ....and <span style="color:#ff9900;">carrots</span>. And in addition to the walnut cake, <span style="color:#ff9900;">carrot </span>cake with cream cheese frosting.<br /><br />We also picked up some dried figs from the walnut guy. I love those things. He had a few different kinds but we chose local ones. Around here, they dry them with bay leave which adds a little kick. Besides, it's the taste profile that we know - there's no need to be experimental at Easter time.<br /><br />Off to Split to visit Husband's grandmother today.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-26425018337710054052009-04-08T14:57:00.005+02:002009-04-10T07:30:44.224+02:00The Plan for Easter LunchWe did our Easter shopping today. I'll start preparing some things tomorrow so that I'm not overwhelmed later on and besides, Friday is a fasting day which complicates preparation if you have to be tasting things all the time.<br /><br />We'll go to the Easter vigil mass on Saturday night and have our usual assortment of foods blessed, such as:<br /><br />a small Irish soda bread, with a deep cross cut into the top<br />4 or 5 colored eggs<br />a bottle of wine<br />a large hunk of cooked ham<br />& a small container of pickled beets<br /><br />The idea here is to bless enough that you can go home and have yourself a little snack at 1 or 2 in the morning, whenever you get back from church.<br /><br />This is the plan for Easter Lunch is:<br /><br />Appetizer:<br />ham<br />eggs<br />pickled beets<br />bread<br /><br />Main:<br />stuffed cabbage rolls & mashed potatoes<br /><br />roast lamb<br />roast potatoes<br />mixed salad<br /><br />Dessert:<br />walnut layer cake<br /><br />Then 3 hours later, you eat the whole thing again...An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-18712092662166717662009-04-05T21:53:00.009+02:002009-04-06T13:22:47.126+02:00God and Croatia<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgC3lg8bkVZ-MwLjD46uOB9ATIrDUrnPoR_gTl_sCADL3ssVI52AsHhG-rnpZ6KyCf_MOVSTt4zNVyVjwYUdRBZnoNgv8pRbBtnGfcOwm1TUzFro5j-CYfOeOn-BZq5W-iLhl-oTwMcIQs/s1600-h/olive+branches+for+Palm+Sunday"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321534833441563138" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgC3lg8bkVZ-MwLjD46uOB9ATIrDUrnPoR_gTl_sCADL3ssVI52AsHhG-rnpZ6KyCf_MOVSTt4zNVyVjwYUdRBZnoNgv8pRbBtnGfcOwm1TUzFro5j-CYfOeOn-BZq5W-iLhl-oTwMcIQs/s320/olive+branches+for+Palm+Sunday" border="0" /></a>Palm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy week on the Christian calendar. Instead of traditional palm branches being distributed to parishioners on Palm Sunday, Croatians - at least in Dalmacija - get olive branches. While we do have lots of palm trees here, it doesn't even come close to the number of olive trees. So...olive branches, we get. <div><br /><div></div><div>When you enter the church, there is a box with hundreds of these olive branches. Each parishioner is meant to take one olive branch. However, rather than one olive branch, it's a common sight to see people taking 5-6-7 branches or more...and rifling through the box to find the biggest and best branches like they're picking through potatoes. </div><br /><div></div><div>I've lived here long enough to know the thought process:</div><br /><div></div><div><span style="color:#3333ff;"><em>My {husband, sister, son, daughter...etc..} doesn't go to church but because they are my kin, they are still very good Catholics. I will take branches for {so and so} and it's just as good as if they went to church.</em></span></div><div></div><br /><div>or possibly,</div><br /><div></div><div><em><span style="color:#3333ff;">I'm having the entire family over to my house for Easter next weekend and I want everyone to see how Holy I am...</span></em> </div><div></div><div></div><div></div><div> </div><div>Whatever the thinking, we saw old bags who looked they were hauling entire olive trees around with them! </div><br /><div></div><div>The Pope once called Croatia the ˝Bulwark of Catholicism˝ - meaning, Croatians throughout history have lived and regularly died in defense of the faith - through invasions, conquests, etc... More recently, Croatia went from the scandal and persecution of being openly Catholic under the communists to it being a sign - perhaps THE sign - of Croatian patriotism. I say, with no doubt, that TV cameras will all point towards whomever is running for office in the local elections next </div><br /><div></div><div>Nowadays, I often here that Croatia is <em>culturally</em> Catholic and people nod their head, like that actually means something. In fact, you're either Catholic or your not Catholic. You can't sit in church on Sunday morning and then take bribes on Monday and still call yourself a Catholic. </div><div></div><br /><div>So, I see the old bags dragging their blessed olive <em>trees</em> and I wonder where the Bulwarks of Catholicism all went. Maybe these are the same people who's families stopped going to church the very second that the Communists came into power so that they could still get the good jobs...the big apartments that would be denied the openly faithful for their defiance of the party. Maybe now, in their twilight years, they regret their own cowardice and want God and all of us to be witnesses to the fact that they were <em>really</em> Catholic all along. </div><br /><div>I don't know. I do know that, this year and from now on, we will quietly cut branches from our own olive trees. </div></div>An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-8924868459948587662009-04-05T10:22:00.009+02:002009-04-05T10:50:45.854+02:00Making Sausages<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdec4b7Z71uDY09LBZ4tF-UC6vKqLqHVj1TS9O43OruBLxTyN1xHobWGvpEHYRBM-uDaihz5qmTq2oh48H1zzFDAB1p9an4xe7iE7V3w9pNGmU6blwBRkhOYMLWOlfyJq9kKv3QXX_S5Q/s1600-h/sausage+making+1"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321119953618602306" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdec4b7Z71uDY09LBZ4tF-UC6vKqLqHVj1TS9O43OruBLxTyN1xHobWGvpEHYRBM-uDaihz5qmTq2oh48H1zzFDAB1p9an4xe7iE7V3w9pNGmU6blwBRkhOYMLWOlfyJq9kKv3QXX_S5Q/s320/sausage+making+1" border="0" /></a>Our friend Mišel (in the foreground) came over yesterday afternoon and the guys made sausages...<br /><br />We started with 12 kg of pork (carsko meso - I don't know what that means in English). After the guys cleaned the meat (pictured) - removed bones etc...we ended up with 10.5 kg of meat that was ground.<br /><br />To that, we added,<br /><br />180 g salt<br />200 g paprika (a mixture of hot and sweet)<br />3 heads of ground garlic<br /><br />It blew Mišel's mind to learn the average American cook doesn't use a kitchen scale. I explained to him that we use measuring cups....we measure <em>volume </em>rather than weight. To him, the difference wasn't charming...it was insane :-)<br /><br />We've made sausages every year, but this year's crop was the best. After our labors, we cooked some up and ate some with sliced onions and mustard. Fantastic.<br /><br />Bonus! You get a little view of our tiny dining room/office during the week. Those are kitchen cabinets that you see there. Instead of plate and dishes, I've put books in those cabinets. We've gotten many a raised eyebrows from people when they find out that 1) we put kitchen cabinets in a room that is not the kitchen, and 2) that the cabinets contain non-kitchen related items. What do I care that the cabinets were intended for some other use? It was a creative solution for a small space and it looks great.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-48670932898612368282009-04-03T07:58:00.008+02:002009-04-03T08:51:00.988+02:00Lambing Season!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1H7LKRRD8hfeEmNYFabFdESIHDiWABou7F1z32ZyfZnL2bLgQTM8_SCMd8sVn8oJzsskmQrMYeoL3OIQ1OClGq455A1vjo4r8B_AYy96DKT0d0JWZFyftlV-XrXpWMyhYRJq4YeJK0Ag/s1600-h/DSCF0361.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320344932388396850" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1H7LKRRD8hfeEmNYFabFdESIHDiWABou7F1z32ZyfZnL2bLgQTM8_SCMd8sVn8oJzsskmQrMYeoL3OIQ1OClGq455A1vjo4r8B_AYy96DKT0d0JWZFyftlV-XrXpWMyhYRJq4YeJK0Ag/s320/DSCF0361.JPG" border="0" /></a>So, last night I was reading about the <a href="http://www.hobbyfarms.com/hobby-farms-portal.aspx">lambing season</a>, this being Spring and all.<br /><br />Since moving to Croatia, I've actually met a real live shepard. While it is a fairly common profession, particularly here in Dalmacija, the only shepard that I've known personally is Lukić in <a href="http://www.dalmacija.net/razanac.htm">Ražanac</a> (I like the tag line in this link to Ražanac ...). We had coffee and cakes at Lukić's house once. I was interested in buying some of the wool during the shearing season. The modus operandi around here is to burn the wool, because <em>who actually wants</em> <em>wool in Dalmacija</em>? At the time, I was working on a craft project that required stuffing. In lieu of wool from the Lukić flock, I used a little bit of Husband's grandmother's dowery. A dowery of wool (!)...I mean, even that there WAS a dowery blows my mind. When was the last time you heard of families getting doweries?<br /><div></div><br /><div>So anyway, husband met Lukić some years back walking around the village with his flock. Lukić told a story that the winter wind from the NorthEast, the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPzoYhHesV8&feature=related">Bura</a>, is so strong in Ražanac that a gust knocked him off balance and he fell into the water which - naturally- got his clothes wet. Rather than catching a cold walking around in wet clothes, he walked back to the village naked. Ahhh, Ražanac...it's a unique place. </div><div></div><div>Anyway, Lukić was getting tired of the sheparding business and was thinking about going into the business of raising snails. That would be another first for me...snail wrangler. </div>An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-62024743183306305492009-04-01T17:37:00.004+02:002009-04-01T18:16:16.946+02:00Keember(rolled r)leeTomorrow I go to the doctor. No great surprises expected but who likes to go to the doctor. <br /><br />I must say that I'm happy with this doctor, though. He's like a big bear, or at least that's how I once heard someone else describe him. And he <strong>is</strong> like a big bear but one that doesn't bite or fuss or move too quickly. He's like a gentle giant. <br /><br />The practice is small. Everything in it's place, neat and orderly and clean. Very proper. There is one nurse and one doctor. She has her desk. He has a small separate office. The nurse even wears one of those little white hats that nurses in the U.S. used to wear....or I think they wore, as it would have been long before my time. ...Think 1940's nursing outfit...<br /> <br />At the time when I was pregnant with the first baby, Dr. K didn't own an ultrasound machine. He would schedule all of the women who needed ultrasounds for the same time and walk us all over to another clinc around the corner where he had ultrasound priviledges. Ducklings following a mother duck, all of us in various stages of pregnancy...<br /><br />By the time of the second pregnancy, Dr. K had acquired an ultrasound of his own.<br /><br /><br />From the waiting room, the routine is that the nurse calls out your name - the patient's <em>last </em>name - signalling that the doctor is ready to see her. Except in my case - where for some inexplicable reason - the nurse insists on calling out my first name DESPITE the fact that I have a foreign first name and it would be infinitely easier for her to bark out my last name. Maybe she's trying to challenge herself (?) But everytime, it's ˝...Šimić....Longin....Šenata....Kimberly (actually, Keember(rolled r)leee).˝ <br /><br />It's funny. Endearing.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-26604307568865260822009-03-31T08:00:00.012+02:002009-03-31T22:06:04.999+02:00Mormon Boys in ZadarRecently, I became acquainted with a charming, young artist from Salt Lake City - Senta Plyer of <a href="http://sentaplyer.blogspot.com/">As I Was Saying</a>. I was telling her that a year ago, she would have been the first person from Utah that I'd ever met - but now, since living in Zadar....Ironically, I've met several people from Utah.<br /><br />A few weeks before Easter last year, we met two Mormon boys standing on the street corner trying to talk to people on a Saturday night. One of them started talking to us, in PERFECT Croatian, asking ˝if we wanted to be a part of a church that isn’t corrupt.˝<br /><br />Now, you must know that Husband and I met at church...<em>Catholic</em> church...and the faith is central to our life together. So, this approach of theirs piqued our interest not because we were conversion material but rather, we wondered how successful their tactics were in Croatia as it is purportedly a Catholic country.<br /><br />So, ˝they˝ continued talking in perfect Croatian - I say ˝they˝ because the younger one never spoke. When Husband said ˝you can speak English,˝ these guys melted into a gooey puddle. As an immigrant, myself, I know how they felt. Your ear strains to hear something familiar all the time.<br /><br />Turns out that the young one, Brady, had been in Croatia all of a week or two and was in complete shock. The older one, Chase, was almost done with his time in Croatia. We chatted for an hour mostly off the topic of religion, exchanged contact information and parted ways.<br /><br />As the time approached, we thought to invite those boys for Easter lunch but wondered if they would even be allowed to come. I called anyway. ˝oh my gosh, oh my gosh, I knew you guys would call us...I knew it!˝ So, yes. They could <em>and would</em> come. A third Mormon kid, Jerrod, was absorbed into the fold after being evacuated from Serbia a few days prior.<br /><br />So our Catholic household for Easter 2008 consisted of:<br /><br />Husband and I, Husband's 75 year old Yugo-nostalgic aunt and 3 Mormon boys. What a mix to celebrate the birth of our Lord!<br /><br />We ended up having those boys over to our house lots of times, including American Independance Day. As is standard operating procedure, those boys get moved around to other cities...some go home...so the exact composition of our group of Mormons changed everytime. We went through Miles from Texas...Robbie from Arizona...Gabriel from Italy...Hugo, a Venezuelian Mormon whose whole family moved to Zagreb (so he spoke Spanish and Croatian) but it wasn't until we lost Brady to Varaždin in the north that we parted ways with the Mormons. It just wasn't the same after he left - the last vestages of the core group were gone.<br /><br />They were good boys, though. Good times.An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-193348698622667774.post-17092458493051386092009-03-30T20:14:00.004+02:002009-03-30T20:28:10.893+02:00Zadar Vegetables<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVZexKVIWqqL3-HR20eiwFOA-QKy-Pk8QVMeVNAdECW7DIPH-z1w5imqj1DBJg68Kuw4x9aHf1J5MlJs_0L32iojZyz8EQsgnXHyd_-Oj_VEAgAL2iH8FusbtwiWskEH0Ndwkyo8yujd8/s1600-h/Zadar+Bulls+Heart"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319046080043423890" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVZexKVIWqqL3-HR20eiwFOA-QKy-Pk8QVMeVNAdECW7DIPH-z1w5imqj1DBJg68Kuw4x9aHf1J5MlJs_0L32iojZyz8EQsgnXHyd_-Oj_VEAgAL2iH8FusbtwiWskEH0Ndwkyo8yujd8/s200/Zadar+Bulls+Heart" border="0" /></a>This vegetable is called Bull's Heart. I have no idea what it is but I like it. It's sort of a cross between cabbage and butter lettuce. Add a little carrots, onions, garlic, some bacon and balsamic vinegar...Di.Vine. The bacon is a big fat cheat....it makes everything taste good.<br /><br /><br />More later....An American in Croatiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10200123129325549293noreply@blogger.com0